Replying to some repulsively toxic lies

I am overdue to correct a few published, and unpublished, lies about me. Some of them. There are many more.

I have never physically assaulted anyone. My Daughter Sienna has never accused me of abusive, harmful, behaviour. She was always completely safe, and secure, always thriving, while living with me.

I am certain that my Daughter Sienna does want to see me, does want to be in regular, easy, comfortable, normal life contact with me. I am certain she misses me.

I have never threatened to kill anyone in New Zealand.

I have no convictions for physical violence of any kind.

There are two protections orders against me. Since 2021. Not five, as constable eli mwaijumba has repeatedly lied about / tried to claim, in 2024. I provided evidence of that fact to the police integrity unit last year. To an officer named matt fitzgerald who eventually accepted that reality. As far as I could tell.

Neither protection order was justifiable. They are very, very, obviously unnecessary and have been for approaching five years now.

I didn’t resist arrest. I did delay being arrested initially. There was no high speed car chase. I drove slowly – keeping to the speed limit the entire time – back to my address and I wanted to park my car outside my address, which I almost managed to do. I also wanted to check my bail conditions (document) as one of the two male police who had followed me that Wed afternoon, as I drove to my local tennis club, had said I was under arrest for breach of bail. For allegedly breaching a non-association condition, for a completely non-violent, non threatening, email complaining about the lawyer for child, sent to my mother. At worst, the very, worst, the tone of that email was sarcastic.

A large Samoan neanderthal cop from Avondale police station jumped in front of the car park spot (yelling extremely aggressively) I was going to park in, an Indian cop smashed my driver’s side window and dragged me out of the car onto the tarmac and broken glass. Cutting my upper arm. I was not struggling. I was not holding onto the steering wheel or anything else. I was gesturing with both hands at the car park on the side of the road that my car was about to fit into, indicating that I wanted to park there. Opposite where I lived.

There were at least nine police on my street. Maybe eleven. It was very difficult for me to count them all.

Inexplicably, very unjustly, the arresting cop opposed bail.

Resisting arrest is a physical thing. It is the act of physically struggling with police. I did not do that. They have always wanted me to do that, I never have.

Contrary to the stuff.co.nz article, I did not leave voice messages on either womens’ phone. There were two phone conversations. One was less than five seconds long. No voice messages. No threats of intent (action) and no swearing.

Neither woman was living in a state of “constant fear.” They never have been. For over five years now. Their victim statements have not been made public and I was not allowed to read them.

Both women were offered the opportunity to do Restorative Justice and both declined. I had agreed to participate.

I have no history of physically assaulting anyone.

The Court Of Appeal judges have never addressed the fact that numerous other people have committed blatantly more socially damaging crimes but have still been granted Discharges Without Conviction, while I was not granted one, despite there being zero demonstrable harm caused to either woman. The alleged family violence harm was intangible, immeasurable, un-demonstrated, unsubstantiated, emotional harm.

How does emotional harm pass any kind of evidential test?

In cases like mine, it didn’t. It didn’t even come close. Neither women even claimed to need serious mental health support or prescribed medication.

Both women experienced very, very, little lasting harm. Zero harm that can be substantiated. They have been fine for years. They even refused to participate in Restorative Justice.

judge Tony Fitzgerald statements

Auckland Family Court judge Tony Fitzgerald accepted the accusations that I said some harmful things to my Daughter Sienna about her mother lisa raymond, and about the former lawyer for child (the second lawyer for child from May 2023- December 2025) alan gluestein.

I didn’t. It’s that simple. I did not say what Fitzgerald accused me of saying and he cannot substantiate his claims about me in any way.

I audio recorded that visit and other visits. In order to protect my Daughter and myself from her word (supervisor) vs my word scenarios, which happened anyway.

judge Fitzgerald refused to allow me to use that audio recording, and others, to defend myself against a handful of extremely malicious but petty accusations of breaking supervised custody communication rules.

And there a lot more lies that concerned people, decent people, should be discussing with me, in-person.

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